In the same way, when we find ourselves in themidst of change, we should extend the samekindness to ourselves as the butterfly does.Perhaps kindness to yourself is like the patience abutterfly exhibits. It is understanding that not allprocesses happen immediately and that growthneeds both effort and rest. Give yourself time toadjust, to let your wings dry, knowing that withpatience and attention to your own needs, youcreate room to prepare yourself for what change