Were he in the house alone more than overnight with me in the hospital I would be an absolute basket case as he leaves the water running, the stove on at times, lights on everywhere, etc. . . . I check & recheck as much as I can on most things lately but even so many of our affairs are in a state ofconfusion & what really is hardest is his resentment of my intrusion-"stay out of my affairs!!" He does not accept or realize my wanting to be helpful & that is the hardest thing of all for me.