yes i understand what u say but she has learned from maybe you the way of pushing and blackmailing me to do things she wants. anyway e.g yesterday im sorry i was late because of work. i was driving like crazy but i could not fly. meeting was changed from huaihai lu to pudong. but i tought still ok because meeting eng was 16.00.what could i do except call u and warn i might be late but i try to make up time