It said 20 minutes last log in when I wrote that messageI just hope that I will receive similar courtesy should I ever be in a remotely similar position If you know more than the rest of the guild (because he is a long term friend of yours or you are in contact via dms) it would also be helpful to disclose some of that informationThis would be far healthier than leaving people in the dark who lack the context you may have and thus will be worried and concerned.